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Marriage
Procedures in the Eastern Orthodox Church
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- The Orthodox Church does not
perform the Sacrament of Marriage for two
non-Orthodox Christians or for an Orthodox and an
unbaptized person.
- An Orthodox Christian must be
married in the Orthodox Church, by an Orthodox
priest and according to the Orthodox service in
order to be in proper canonical and spiritual
standing.
- The Sponsoring witness(es) at an
Orthodox marriage (Best Man and / or Maid of Honor)
must be an Orthodox Christian.
- By application of the principle
of oikonomia (economy) the Orthodox Sacrament of
Marriage between an Orthodox and a Christian
baptized in the name of the Holy Trinity, known as a
mixed marriage, may be performed in the manner
prescribed in the Service Book. The non-Orthodox is
requested to present a Certificate of Baptism well
in advance of the wedding.
- Should the parties in a mixed
marriage request the presence of a non-Orthodox
clergyman, the following procedure is ordered
subject to the approval of the bishop. The Orthodox
pastor will issue an invitation to the guest
clergyman who may be seated on the Solea during the
marriage service. The pastor will also issue an
invitation to any Orthodox clergy whom you wish to
invite.
- Marriages cannot (without the
Metropolitan Archbishop's permission) take place on
the eves of Wednesday or Friday, Great Lent, Advent,
Dormition Fast, and other fast days.
- During the service proper, only
Orthodox hymns prescribed by the Church are
permitted. Appropriate music performed by an organ
and/or a soloist (only - as per Archdiocese policy),
however, may be sung before and after the wedding
service.) It is your responsibility to arrange for
this; although, the pastor may be able to offer some
recommendations to you.
- The photographer and/or video
person must meet with the pastor prior to the
service.
- In the event this is a second
marriage of either party (Orthodox or not),
permission from the Metropolitan Archbishop is
needed via the Pastor and the service used will be
according to the liturgical guide. Please consult
with the pastor immediately if this is the case.
- A marriage license from the
Commonwealth of Massachusetts must be secured before
the ceremony and must be presented to the pastor
beforehand.
- Plan on meeting with the pastor
4-6 weeks prior to the wedding date for premarital
counseling. In addition, the rehearsal should be
scheduled well in advance of the wedding so that a
mutually convenient time can be arranged. In
thanksgiving to God, an offering to the Church
should be made; $50 is the stipend for the chanter
(the pastor will secure the chanter), $50 is the
stipend for the sexton, and if you care to, a gift
to the pastor can be made at your discretion.
- A check for $10 made out to "The
Antiochian Archdiocese” to cover the cost of the
certificate from the archdiocese.
- All Orthodox parties
(Bride/Groom, Best Man etc.) are strongly encouraged
and urged to receive confession and communion at the
Sunday closest to their wedding date.
- Your crowns should be removed the
first Sunday after your return from the honeymoon.
Please call the church office in advance of this
date to arrange for this.
- If you choose to get a runner
plan on getting one at least 75 feet. In addition,
there are 18 pews.
If you have any questions or concerns,
please do not hesitate to contact the
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